By Bobby Rio
Co-creator of: Unlock Her Legs: How to Finally Nail that Hard to Get Girl
In my previous article I talked about how you dont get a woman to fall in love with you by things you say…
Because love actually happens when shes away from you…
When she cant stop thinking about you…
When she finds herself repeating your name in her mind over and over again…
And although she doesnt quite understand why… she wants to see you so bad it HURTS
Thats love. And its something you can actually engineer.
The Emotion Game
Love is what I call an Emotions Game.
And its all about getting a woman emotionally addicted to you. So that you can fully capture her attention.
Youve probably already heard the saying create a roller-coaster of emotions for her. But my guess is you dont fully understand the concept.
I say this because every day I get emails from guys asking:
How do I talk about emotions with her?
What are some emotional topics?
Thats ALL WRONG.
Getting a girl emotionally addicted to being around you is NOT about talking about specific emotions..
Its about creating them in her.
Yes. Your ONLY job is to create a full range of emotions in a woman. Most guys stop at the obvious ones like anger, joy, horniness….
But the real Gems… the ones that create the drama, intrigue, and fascination that captures a womans mind are the less obvious ones:
Its the surprise that keeps her on her toes… that holds her interest… that has her wondering whats coming next.
Its during the confusion of trying to figure you out … that you begin to occupy a larger and larger space in her mind
Its during the anticipation of waiting for your next text that she begins to convince herself shes in love with you…
Love does NOT happen when youre completely content. This is why most nice guys lose girls they really like.
Love happens when you start to feel like youre losing control…
Think about the last time you were in love with a girl. I bet you felt a little powerless, a little helpless, and had a constant sense of a little anxiety…
And the only fix was the woman.
And that feeling, love, is something you can engineer.
In the Seduction Weapons portion of Unlock Her Legs I give 12 weapons of seduction.
These are 12 ways to induce specific emotions in a woman…
These are 12 ways to capture her attention and basically have her thoughts glued on you…
Until she begins to think shes in love with you…
(learn it all here)
Its not pretty. But neither is love.